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I feel like I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend. My problem is that I was raped and thats how I really lost my virginity. This would be my real first time and I dont want to be nervous or bad at it sense my boyfriend is experianced.
first question: How can I stop my nerves
second question: How can I make it romantic and nice for him. making love not just sex.
and any other advice you have.
thank you (link)
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Hi, you might be feeling nervous because you want everything to be right. There is no right or way to have sex because it's just shoving the penis into your vagina. Are you emmbarressed about showing each other your body parts? There is nothing to be nervous about, I reckon your nervous because it's your first time and you want to make it right. It's not about showing a good impression or doing it right, it's about showing him how much you care and how much you enjoy being with him. It should come naturally. The best way to make it romantic and nice is to perhaps just cuddle and lie next to each other after sex or explore and just simply kiss. Just have lots of fun, no one is perfect at this. Daniel.
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