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Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.

what do i do? (link)
Hi there, you've first of all need to figure out why it is you are losing interest in your boyfriend. Once you've figured that out then the next step is to talk it over sometime with your boyfriend. It wouldn't be fair to just dump him when he hasn't even heared how you feel. It requires communication towards each others feelings in a relationship for it to work out. It sounds as though you have lust for this guy at work. Your attracted to him, yet you love your boyfriend and have been together for over a year. I would personally keep with your boyfriend and please just talk to him about how you feel. Even though lust is nice, I think love is greater. Daniel.


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thank you, i loved what you said, "Even though lust is nice, I think love is greater" that really got me. thanks




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