Member Since: June 4, 2006
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Last Update: March 25, 2012
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God, I have a real problem. When I first came to Jr. High last year I was myself 100%. I didn't give a care what people thought about me, or who my friends were. Then in the middle I started changing my looks and the way I talked, and I found myself ditching my old friends (who were kind of geeky) to be friends with newer and more popular ones. And it worked! Some of the popular people hang out with me now. But I feel really bad now. Now that im friends w/ the popular kids, I feel like I dont even need my old friends. I even LIKE my new friends more than my old ones. So tell me... am I a total selfesh jerk for ditching my friends? And am I weird for changing myself? (link)
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Although you probably shouldnt have ditched your friends...its not that bad, as long as you really like your new friends then its fine b/c there is nothing wrong with wanted some change in your life. And as long as you like the changes you made to yourself- then i think that you are just growing up and there is absolutly nothing wrong with that.
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thanks alot. it really helped to hear that someone thinks that I am just changing and not doing it to hurt their feelings.
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