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My friends don’t have that much self confidence. They always ask me how they can become more self acceptant, and to be honest I have no idea what to tell them. I have very little, maybe even no self confidence. I always feel like my friends are better people, and I know that’s wrong. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others because they are not perfect (no one is), but I can’t help it. Last year everyone told me I was a little “look-hard.” Basically meaning I was ugly, and people always told me how I was not a nice person... blah blah blah. This year though, I have people telling me how “gorgeous and beautiful” I am, and how I have such an amazing personality. How can that change in over a year, I just can’t bring myself to believe what the others are saying. How can I have more self confidence and help my friends have more also? I want to be able to help my friends, but at the same time, I need to help myself too. ♥ (link)
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Dont' worry about what other people think because whatever you think you are, you will become. If you think you are ugly and a mean person, you will seem that way to others. But if you think that you are fun, pretty, happy, ect., you will be. Just try to have a good time with your friends and give them positive reinforcement and compliments. It feels good. Good luck.
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I don't care what others think of me, I was using it as an ex: because I don't care what they say, I want to think that stuff on my own. So what if they think im ugly or mean or whatever, i dont care. I only care what i think, and sometimes its not positive. I see your point thou, so thanks anyways.
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