Member Since: July 20, 2006
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Last Update: July 20, 2006
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Ok, here is my problem. I have a group of friends. We all were pretty cool with eachother until this year. One girl was acting annoying etc. etc. and making some huge mistakes. My other friends got made at her and talk about her everytime I come over because they are dissappointed and mad at her because she made mistakes, especially a huge one. I agree with them on some topics, but not on others. The friend who makes mistakes is still my friend...but sometimes she goes and makes a white lie to me every now and then and it makes me uncomfortable. I can not side with her or else I'll lose some of my good friends, but I cant side with them either because I do not agree with everything they are doing. I am being used and pestered by the annoying friend sometimes. I try to talk to her about it....but I never can say the things I want to say right. I need help! What should I do?
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I know this may be harsh, but it somewhat reminds me of something I did. So, I'll just tell you... You need to tell your gut that you just have to say to your annoying friend, "I don't like it when you lie to me! It makes me feel (say whatever it makes you feel, even if it is uncomfortable)! I also feel like I can't trust you anymore!" Also say that if this continues, there will be no more friendship between you two. Friends should always feel comfortable and happy when they meet. I guess you should feel like you're looking forward to seeing her. If you don't feel this way, she is not the best friend you will have. I may sound like a grown-up, but I'm only 13.
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