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i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f (link)
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Hi, your probaly just feeling nervous and shy. This is ok and normal but the only way to break through it is to get out more into the social zone. What exactly makes you feel shy? If it is your body image then really you don't need to worry about it. We all look different and we can't really change who we are. If your worried about first impressions and what people think of you then just think about it this way "I can't read minds, so how do I know what they're thinking?". People are always judging on a person because of their looks, but do they really know the inside you. The real you. Just because you look nice doesn't mean you are nice, and just because you look ugly then it doesn't mean your ugly inside. I suppose my point is that if your worried about what people are going to think, then don't. And if they think negative of you or say something that put's you down then they don't really know the positive you. Go out a bit more and socialize. The more you think about being shy, the more you will be shy. The only way you can stop being shy is to just socialize. I know it's really hard, but once you get talking to people and be around them the better you will beable to adapt to them. If you do start talking to people, then ask open questions. Open questions can give you are more detailed answer and can lead to a conversation. Then the more you talk to the person, the more comfortable you feel about being around the person. Just go out there and do it. You owe it to yourself for the best. Daniel.
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awww! thank you that helps alote :)
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