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ive always thought dat my life was messed up. y live a life dat i hate? dat changed after my boyfren came along. i felt special. i felt LOVED. now his paents are moving to NY. real far away from me. im really sad. i hate myself. i hate everything. i wanna kill myself. im nothing without him.is life really worth living for? how can i get over the person that changed my life? how am i gonna live without him? please some1 tell me wat to do? i feel so hated by god. y is he treating me like this? y is he takin away the love of my life? please help! :( (link)
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Hi, right now it is probaly a painful time for you. Why don't you get his phone number and maybe every now and then give him a ring? The fact is, is that sometimes we've got to let go of the ones we love. You sound as though your desperate to be with him. This is not good, because it may seem as though your boyfriend is everything, but your still young. Killing yourself isn't going to solve anything. Im show it would hurt your boyfriend if you did that. What I think you can both do is give each other your phone numbers and E-mail address and have a chat. Get MSN installed on your computer and you could both talk live. The thing is, is that he will likely move on with his life and he might find another girl he likes. Long distance relationships usually don't work, but as hurtful as it sounds you can still be friends. Put it this way, would you rather lose him as a boyfriend but keep the friendship with him or would you rather lose the whole lot and never talk to him again? I know which one I would chose. Besides if you keep friends with him, when you are older the pair of you you could go and visit him, and just see if you can make it work out between the two of you again. Then you could live with eachother. The chances are that he will move on and fall in love with another girl. You can do the same. I know that you don't want to here this but, there are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of nice guys wanting to be with a nice girl like yourself. Like I said before, would you rather lose him as a boyfriend but remain friends or lose him all together? The best thing you can do is just take some time out away from your love-life and think positive. Then a few months later get out and go perhaps to a disco or you know the school ball, or a night club if your old enough. Then meet someone there that you like. Then come home and tell your ex boyfriend what a lovely time you had. Your ex wouldn't want you to be crying or sad all the time. Take every opportunity that comes your way, meet guys, and have a damn good time. Because your only young for a while and you've got to make the most of it, while you've still got it. If you ever want to talk to someone, then get back to me on my advice column. Chin up, be happy, you may have lost him as a boyfriend but you can still keep him in your life. Daniel.
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you're right. i have to move on. thank you. =]
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