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hey. were mikela and ana. were best friends and we love helping people out. we give pretty good advice we must say and hopefully by getting two peopls opionions we can help you out even better.
:] ana plays volleyball and mikela does nothing. [[ shes in between sports ]] mikela comes from a big family and ana has one sister. both are pretty laid back and awsome. we both think were differnt races than we really are BUT dont be alarmed. anas myspace is myspace.com/tutti_dolci
and her sn is ANAA xx3
mikels myspace is myspace.com/thattxhottiee and her sn is miikela says xx
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Gender: Female
Location: houston texas
Occupation: students
Age: 13
AIM: ANAA xx3
Member Since: July 1, 2006
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Well, whenever me and my two best friends hang out it's all good and we're all happy and talkative with eachother. But lately, this one girl has started to come in and talk to us and whenever she does, I tend to get the left-out feeling. I'll talk but my two other friends'll be like,"Wait, what did you say?" and they sort of pay more attention to her and walk with her more. So basically, I get the boot. But like I said, whenever she's NOT there we're all completely fine and everything.
I just don't know how to handle her whenever she's there.
It's getting to the point that whenever they want her to hang out with all of us I have to make up a lie of some sort so she wouldn't be able to come along.
Help?
mikela thinks.
well. there are two ways to aproch this.
1. you can tell your friends maybe its just me but i feel kinda left out when that girls around.. i mean if theyre really your friends they will understand, i mean mind would.
2. when she come you can try being cool with her. like try talkign to her. try to like get more into the convo with her. does this make since. like if shes says, isnt that the cutest cat. be like omg it is i have a cat like that..da da da da da continue on. if you cant beat it..join it.
that or you can just not hang with your friends when theyre with that person. but that will kinda cut you out on alot of gatherings. the best thing todo is tell your friends how you feel,
ana think:
well.next time your hangin out with just you and your two friends let them know that its bugging you and you feel like they are totally leaving you out. let them know you arent trying to breakup there friendship with this other girl, but it really makes you feel bad when yall all 4 hangout because you feel so left out of everything. dont be whiney about it. just be mature about how you bring it up and how you tell them. they seem like really great friends and im sure they will understand
good luck=] IM me if you need anything else.
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thanks so much you guys. i will definetley [ sp ] talk to them. :D
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