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Well.. I used to be popular, when popular was good. When it was good to be nice & smart. Well yeah I had tons of friends and I wasn't very shy.. But now I'm like really shy. (I'm going to 9th grade--highschool, 14/f) I can talk to people on the internet but in person, I turn red and stuff.. and people just know I'm shy so hardly anyone talks to me. My friends that know the real me.. I'm not at ALL shy around them.. but at school I am? I can't really explain this, but please help. How can I make myself talk to people, not blush, be more outgoing, and make more friends? Thanks!

try and meet a new person everyday. say hi learn their names things like that. or have your friends invite people to hang out with you guys then it wont be so akward if your in a group. try talking on the phone more. its one step up from talking online and one step away from talking in person.

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(Rating: 5) thank you! that was good advice. i'm going to try to do these things you said. thanks again :]
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