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Okay my friend is 14, soon to be 10th grader and her boyfriend is a senior. So she's having sex. Her parents don't know.. but she has NO problem flaunting it around everywhere.
She's doing it because she thinks she's in love and she doesn't want to be alone. Being alone is her biggest fear so she latches onto any good guy, you know? I've known her for 5 years and I've seen it over and over.
And a couple of people think her boyfriend is only in on the sex.
They have only been going out for about 6 months.
Should I try to talk to her? Or talk to her parents?
Because she keeps hurting herself.
And I've seen her cry in her sleep and it bothers me..
She's going way too far and I don't want her to get hurt. (link)
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Hi, yes deffinately be there for her. This is quite common for some girls. Some girls want guys that badly and they will go to all the extremes just to keep them. The guy's pick that up and start taking advantage of them. They can be worried sick and frightened of losing the guy which means it can cause alot of sadness and anxiety. The problem with love is it can be awarding but then again it can really hurt us, emotionally. She is quite young to be having sex and really all you can do is try and talk to her and be there for her when she needs you the most. It is quite likely in her situation that she's going to keep on getting hurt very bad and I would give her plenty of hug's and really show her that there is someone out there who likes her. If this guy is after sex, then shame on him. Try and give your friend all the advice you can give her. She might ignore you but will lately find out what you've told her for herself. All you can do is give her advice but the choices and what she does is up to her. Love does hurt, but being lonelly can hurt even more. Daniel.
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