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Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate (link)
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Hi, ask yourself these questions:
Who has the qualities that I want out of the man? e.g. humour, kindness
Which one of them really feels the same way as I do about them?
Which one do I feel I love the most?
Do I know what love and lust is? And if so, who do I feel the love for?
Don't confuse the love for lust thing. If you want an honest opinion I think you might as well have another crack with your ex. Who know's things might work out better the next time round. If you begin a relationship with the new guy, it gives you another chance to meet someone totally new. It works either way but you can't choose both of them. Who does your heart really go out for the most? Do you want to:
a) Have another crack at it with your ex?
b) Start all over again and meet someone different?
If you answered a) then you still want to have a shot at things with your ex. If you answered b) then you want a fresh new start with someone else. Answer them very carefully and it should help you to decide. Asking ourselves questions can give a more clearer understanding of what we want and can help us in some cases make the right choice. Work it all out, wether it's doing mindmaps or brainstorms. It helps alot. Daniel.
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