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Last night my boyfriend and I were laying on the couch and he was fingering me and we were having a lot of fun. We've been dating about 3 months now. Last night, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, but I explained to him that he should lose his virginity to someone he loves and to someone who is very special to him. Then he told me he loved me and that was the first time he's ever said it to me. After about 20 minutes of thinking and talking, I said I loved him back but I wasnt ready for sex. I know hes the one i've fell for the hardest and I do care about him and he's wonderful, but I'm scared im not really in love with him. I know he's serious about things and he'd never lie and he always says whats on his mind, so i know he does love me. How do I tell him that i dont know if we're in love or not? (link)
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Hi, the simple answer is no really. Basically because you don't sound very sure and if your not sure on something then you shouldn't do it. You must ask yourself:
Do I like him for his looks and what he's got?
Do I really feel the urge to have sex desperately?
If I do have sex and I know Im not sure, what could the consequences be later?
Do I know what love and lust is, and if I do which one matches how I feel towards him?
If you can clear these questions up then really it proves that you are a grown up girl because you are using what's up there first and not what feels good. Be careful and don't do anything that your not sure on. Daniel.
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Hey you really helped. I'm going to answer those questions to you, actually. Hes not overly cute, so no, not his looks or what hes got. I don't feel the urge to have sex, I know the consequences and I DEFINITELY know the difference between love and lust. If I only lusted for him, then obviously I'd have sex with him, right? Thanks a bunch
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