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Howdy!! I'm NEELY!! You can call me Neelz for short!! =] I am a very sweet girl that has been through.. quite A LOT! I do give good advice and I would be so freaking happy if you ask me for some advice!! I ADORE my friends!! Can't live without them. I may be 14 but I have been through a lot of things in life maybe not "ALL" of them but some! I love to give advice its my specialty and dont hesitate to ask me something because I will do all I can to answer you!

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(f/15)
well my best friend and i have been friends for like 2 1/2 years. we usually get along suprisingly well and never fight, although we did get into some arguments and there are just little things she does that annoy me . i've tried to talk to her about it but she is frustratingly stubborn and wont see anything from anyone elses side but her own. she also makes it blantantly clear about the little things i do that annoy her and try to stop, but cant quite since they just happen involuntary. in the past week or so shes been acting weird and telling me differnet things, such as pointing out if i have acne on my face...which obviously isnt a huge self esteem booster. she told me i had gained weight since last WEEK, that i havet oo much fat on my stomach (which i know i dont because im 5"7 and only 115 lbs) and that i have too skinny of arms and man hands. i try talking to her about this but she freaks out and says it was a joke. it wasnt a joke...and if it was why didnt she laugh? why didnt i laugh? she didnt say it in an easygoing voice she said it matter of fact and i dont know what to do because i want to remain friends with her but the fact that she wont listen to me is really irritating.
i need to know what i should do.

thanks for anyone that answers :)

Okay, yeah I have a friend sort of like this. I think that maybe the only reason why she is saying this stuff to you is because she is possibly offended by you and JEALOUS! Thats what girls do, we can be VICIOUS!

What you need to do is possibly sit down with her and tell her how you feel about what she is saying about you. Tell her you don't appreciate it, and its not the best friend thing to do! Tell her that if she keeps on doing this your just not going to hang out with her anymore. Scare her into stopping it. I hope I helped you out!! MUCH LOVE! Neelz

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