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Hi everyone, my name is Kim, im 15 years old and i live in western PA. I have 3 sisters and 3 brothers, two brothers are in the services, which one is currently in Iraq and the other is leaving for there soon. im goin into 11th grade, and i play percussion in my school's marching band, and i throw javelin in track. i am a volunteer firefighter, and i am in an ambulance service. im getting my EMT certs. at the end of june. i like to help out my community any way i can. ask me any question you would like, and i will do my best to answer. i will warn you, i dont have answers to everything, but no one does. I hope i can help you. thanks for reading this!

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I am 20, a little athletic but i could stand to lose 20 pounds (i'm just a shade under 6' tall, 221 lbs.). I show everyone respect, I'm always referred to as a 'great friend' or 'like a big brother', but no matter how much i try i cannot get past that image. i'm either not seen as a date-able person or everyone i try to get close to lies and leads me on instead of telling me the truth and letting me know why they're not interested or what i was doing wrong. Am i doomed to be forever in the hell that we guys call the "Friend-zone"?
Any and all suggestions are welcome, but I have had enough 'help' from other guys. please understand that i'm looking for the female's answer to my problem.
thank you,
Confused-&-Sad

well, my opinion is that just keep looking. there is a girl out there for you somewhere! it just might take forever to find her. truthfully, im one that could care less how much you weigh or what you look like, i always go for the personality aspect. theres someone out there for you. good luck..

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(Rating: 5) i appreciate your input, even tho i already heard that b4, many times. for some reason the only honesty i find is here on advicenators. thank you.
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