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Q: Okay, so I'm pretty much a hardcore soccer player. I play it often. But my mom is always thinking she knows so much about it, and I tell you she doesn't.
She yells at me for stupid mistakes, for everything that goes wrong in our house, and finds ways to call me a loser, loner, and that I suck at stuff, without actually saying it. She's called me a bitch so many times I couldn't count. But my real question is, is what she doing really abuse?
People have told me it was, but I just don't know anymore. She did physically abuse me ages 7-10, maybe that's why I'm not sure or not. And I've been depressed, at least I think a lot. She's making me want to quit soccer from all the camps and stress. And many of my close soccer friends are scared of that because I'm that one girl on the team who puts on a good additude, never gives up, gives it her all, knows what she needs to fix, and would miss what is important to her just to play. And I also go outside and practice often. And I just can't play well anymore and starting not to love it.
so is it abuse?
any help or advice would be amazing.
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I can really relate to you on this one. My mom does the same thing, I can't even count how many times she's tried to make me feel bad about myself. It really hurts, i know it. She's always yelling at me for absolutley nothing, calling me a bitch, idiot, loser and so on. First of all dont quit soccer. I was on a swim team, and i thought i couldn't take it anymore, so i quit. Horrible Idea. It gave my mom something else to yell at me about, and then when i quit it realized how much i really did love, and now i wish i was doing it again. And about what you mom is doing, yes i would call it verbal abuse. But sorry to say, there really isn't to much you can do about it. It's the way she is. People have talked to my mom about the way she treats me, but afterwards she just doesn't care about what they said.
I think the best thing for you to do is to just stay back as much as you possibly can. Hang out with your friends, friends are the BEST thing in the world, and they have helped me through soo soo much.
I hope that helps you!
x0x Kaci
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thank you much. It's nice to know I'm not alone. :]
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I'm kaci, and i love to give advice! And on anything, you have a question i will answer as soon as i can!
Ok...well there really is nothing much about me, music is my life lol. And i swim, so usually im either on the computer listening to music, in my room listening to music, or at swim team practice!
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Gender: Female Location: Canada Member Since: April 22, 2006 Answers: 14 Last Update: February 19, 2007 Visitors: 2076
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