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Ok, here's the dealio...woah, this is really weird but I have a boyfriend and his best friend is going out with my best friend. So once I wasn't in my right mind and made out with his best friend. He found out. He got mad inside but didnt tell me how mad he was until today. Then he and my best friend made out kinda like to get back at me. This is a long distance relationship by the way, but only by like 40 minutes. We all sat down and talked and know how truely sorry everyone is. My best friend and her boyfriend and I are all being very forgiving because we believe that everyone deserves a second chance. My boyfriend, however, is not being so forgiving. He wants to "take a break" and "see how things go". I really want to tell him I'm sorry, which I've already done, but I want to make something special. We have always been suckers for love songs so is there a song that pretty much says I'm sorry and I want you back? (link)
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ok..so heres what i have to say..yeah what you did was wrong (no offence) your boyfriend trusted you with his whole heart, and you made him not trust you anymore. But what he did was also wrong. he cheated with your bestfriend, to make himself as low as you were. thats just wrong. i agree with the fact that you all got together to work things out. unfortunatly, your boyfriend decided he wanted to "take a break". what you need to do is back off, and trust him to think everything out. and if in the end, he desides he wants to Break Up. well...you have to trust him, because this is what he thinks is right for the two of you. you may not find this the right thing to do, but just remember, you cheated on him first. if you wouldn't have done that, maybe you two would still be two peas in a pod. just trust him. maybe it will work out...maybe not..but all will be for the best.
-*-Melanie
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I was not looking for a lecture about what I did being wrong, because I know it was and I see every reason why he's mad at me.
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