Hey! I'm 14/f and I still haven't had a bf, I'm pretty but not gorgeous. I'm sure you have a lot to offer guys, and my parents always say guys are intimidated by me, but that's stupid. The truth is, all of the guys in your grade want the same 5 girls, but only 3 guys actually have a chance with those girls. Middle school/early high school is about figuring out who you are, and trying to look good in front of other people. Who you date when you're 14 years old shows a lot about yourself, and everyone is aspiring for the best. Most of my friends still only like the really popular boys, and almost never acknowledge anyone who's not 100% gorgeous. I'm a lot happier (and get a lot more results) flirting with guys who are hot but not noticed all the time. After the summer, all the guys are going to come back to school and say "Wow, she's hot." They just never noticed you but as they mature they'll realize what a beautiful, amazing girl you are...Good luck! :)
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