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someone i noe and care about deeply is doing pot. i want to stop him. i noe he's not like that but that it's probably pure pressure or something. it's really hurting me that all of these people are commenting on his myspace about how he's such a good drinking buddy and he prolly has to drive home after. and i saw pictures of him doing pot. i love him more than you could ever imagine! can someone please tell me a way that i could get to his head and have him stop all of this? please help me. i don't want someone i love in danger!
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First off there is no way in hell you can just make him stop like at the drop of a hat. He started it and he will stop when he gets the picture that it's not all it's cracked up to be. My friends and I used to be like that, until we all got in trouble and had our lives straightened out, sometimes it takes a higher power than friendship to stop someone from doing what is wrong. Pure pressure usually is a part of it but if you really don't want to pure pressure cannot break you down unless you let it. So obviously this is the way your friend wants to be, he is going to experiment and do multiples of things you probably won't like so all I can say is just wait and let this ride itself out. He will see soon that he's hurting the people that really matter. Tell him that those people he's hanging out with and doing the drugs and drinking with aren't real friends, because they aren't. The moment you stop "being cool" they will ditch you like nobody's business. Sorry to say it but I think you will have to wait a while for him to figure it out.
Hope I helped.
Nikki
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