about

I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot

i'm fine with your rating and thats your opinion, i wasnt saying dont get engaged as i was myself at your age, im saying if you do, then clear it with your parents first so theres no big fall outs later on when they do find out. They should be fine with it especially since they got engaged when they were your age.
i know your in love and engagment is a happy time, it will be horrible if you have to keep it a big secret from your parents who should be sharing this special time with you.

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(Rating: 4) as i told tulip, my parents got married at 16 and they have been married for 32 years.
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