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Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.

I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.


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Hallo!
O.K. so here's the deal. My brother takes me to school each morning in his car. Usually we would just leave at the last second, and get there in time. Now, we're leaving 30 minutes earlier to pick up his friend. I was o.k. with it, but now they're starting to smoke in the car and I get to school with my clothes smelling like smoke. Normally, I would just ask him to stop, but during last summer him and his ex-girlfriend had a baby when he was sixteen, and now I just feel bad for him a lot and I would feel guilty for asking him, because it's probably his way of dealing with the baby (Not that it's the right way.) What should I do? (link)
That's a tough question, cause I'm a smoker and it is his car too, right? Just ask him at least in the mornings not to smoke in the car with you... try and compromise a little. You don't ask him to always not smoke around you and he shouldn't always smoke around you. And you don't have to feel too sorry for him - having a baby was his own deal.

good luck :)


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