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see i have a big problem im good at talking to people about there problems and they like talking to me but im not really good at talking about my feelings when they get really badn i mean talking baout boys is ok and things like that. but i found out recently my friend has cancer and isnt going to be alive much longer this persons haveing a really hard time and it jurts me so much i think about this person everynight and i cry to myself at night the person kinda had a heart attack the other day adn i feel that its a warning that this person wont be with me much longer they thought about ending there life and there was nothing i could do i was up all night in tears afraid that when i woke up they wouldnt be there anymore and this person means so much to me and sure its hard to deal with loosing the person but i guess i just need to have faith but its tearing me up inside i hide it from everyone. i know its not good to keep this all inside becasue its takeing me over but its so hard to talk about ive only told one person about the least bit that the person only had cancer and i stopeed at that maybe im just afraid to open up and face that im going to be in a great deal of pain soon. i just need help to open up and to stop keeping it all inside i so much think of calling my friend and telling her everything but i stop and just think i need to open up im hurting so much inside becasue im holding this all in and i guess i dont want the person to see that becasue it will put them in so much more pain but plezz help me if u can i ll rate 5'd if good advice thanxs so much
and srry for the wrong periods and stuff but im typeing fast and trying to get this done without backing out thanxs so much in advance (link)
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Hi, this must be a very painful time for you. It's good that you know that you cant hide this in any longer, but its not that good that your going through this alone. Just try and share it out amongst others who care about you. Close friends and family are good. What you need to do is spend really good time with your friend. Just spend time with her, it does'nt have to be quiet time but just do something together everyday if possible. It might only be a walk in the park. Try and make her laugh by being funny and sharing jokes and maybe watching stupid videos together. I know alot of silly videos that might make you both laugh such as, Austin Powers or Ali G. You've got to enjoy the time you have left with her, while you still have it. Tell her your feelings. Just because shes got cancer does'nt mean that you can't share your feelings with one another. If you show her what a great friend you are. Then your a golden star. You are a really nice person. Just imagine what a friend you are being to her. Please don't hesitate to ask me for more advice. I hope Ive given you what you wanted to hear. Daniel.
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