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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 11 months. We are together almost everyday. My problem is, I hate when we aren't together. When he can't hang out, I get really upset and I like, minupulate him to come see me. I don't know what is wrong with me! I can never give him space. I feel bad and I try to change but I can't. How should I stop? Does anyone else have this problem? By the way- I would hang out with my friends but they are gone away for the summer.

This is perfectly normal, but it can break relationships up too. You need some distractions and your own hobbies to keep the ralationship healthy.
So when he goes out, distract your self with walks, especially if you have a dog to take out, movies, make cd's, make art, go out for the day, go shopping.
Just anything you can do to stop yourself calling him or trying to get him to come and see you.
see if you can get ideas of hobbies and things to do from the internet.
I've been there and believe me, its very important that you have your own hobbies to keep your relationship alive and healthy so he doesnt feel trapped. if you think you are being too clingy then chances are, he's going to feel that too at some point.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks alot!
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