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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

my boyfriend lives in a different sity than i do. he comes to see me alot though but he has to work and he wont be back here untill the end of the summer and i hardly got to see him when he was here for the weekend and he almost never calls me and when he does or when i call him we only talk for a few mins then he says ""i got to go ill call you later" but he never calls. dont get me wrong i love him and he says he loves me but im so confused (by the way this is my first boyfriend.) and he makes it seem like he doesnt like to hang out with me like he would rather hang out with his friends than me. and im gonna miss him when hes gone for the summer and it would be easy for him to cheat too and he might cheat on me because hes cheated before. sorry theres not much of a question but i just need advice on this im thinking about breaking up with him but i love him and i dont want to im just confused PLEASE give me some advice on how to make this relationship better thank you so much ill rate and commnt to whoever leaves me good advice tips.

I'm sorry but it doesnt seem like his heart in is your relationship at all, it doesnt sound like he loves you and he's cheated on you before, if his heart isnt in it then chances are he will cheat again.
It's just that, if he loves you, you would see you you as much as he can, he would call you and talk to you and text you as much as possible and he wouldnt have cheated on you if he loved you.

i know its hard because you love him, but you need to see him and talk to him and see where you stand with him, if he wont come and see you and he wont ring you or talk to you for long then it doesnt seem like he cares about you or your relationship.

dont let him treat you like this, you dont even trust him anyway, you cant have a good relationship without trust, if he wont meet you or talk to you then i'd dump him. you deserve alot better, a propper boyfriend who is there and treats you right...your "boyfriend" at the moment isn't boyfriend material, and may not even think of you as his girlfriend.

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(Rating: 4) thanks i dont think im gonna dump him but im gonna give him a chance at least
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