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I have a best friend whom I've known since the 7th grade, and one of the things we promised each other in our ring of friends is that "Friends come first always before boyfriends." However, I feel that this best friend of mine is not keeping this promise. Besides being close friends with me, she also had this really close guy-friend since the 7th grade, who has now become her boyfriend. I know that I should understand that its okay for her to be closer to him because they were close before, and are now in a relationship together, but I feel hurt that its against what we promised... Like, she would always, always stress it to to us that friends are always first, but this now seems hypocritical... We rarely talk on the phone anymore, or talk at all because she's always spending time with her boyfriend... What can I do to repair this friendship, or to understand???
Thank you very much. (16/f - Junior) (link)
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Hi there, human being's can be strange creature's sometime's. When we hit puberty our interest into the other sex is alot greater than ever before. For example when people are children we play mainly with younger boys/girls our age, and find mixing with the opposite sex, disgusting or a funny matter. As we hit puberty all that seems to change. What my point is, is simply that your friend has now hit that puberty time and will probaly start to drift more to the opposite sex than there own. Boyfriends seem to be the only thing in their world that matters. Just tell her how it made you feel. Remember though, that she's growing up and so are you. But you can always be best friends. That is very valuable to have. Daniel.
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