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funloving, emotional. Energetic. My hobbies include singing, dancing, drawing, painting, sculpture, reading, writing, algebra (not realy), horseriding. I love animals nomatter what the are; dogs cats birds guineapigs anything but cockroaches.
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Age: 14
Member Since: June 4, 2006
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I have a best friend whom I've known since the 7th grade, and one of the things we promised each other in our ring of friends is that "Friends come first always before boyfriends." However, I feel that this best friend of mine is not keeping this promise. Besides being close friends with me, she also had this really close guy-friend since the 7th grade, who has now become her boyfriend. I know that I should understand that its okay for her to be closer to him because they were close before, and are now in a relationship together, but I feel hurt that its against what we promised... Like, she would always, always stress it to to us that friends are always first, but this now seems hypocritical... We rarely talk on the phone anymore, or talk at all because she's always spending time with her boyfriend... What can I do to repair this friendship, or to understand???

Thank you very much. (16/f - Junior) (link)
maybe you need to talk to your friend, she may not realise that she's making you feel this way. also make sure you stay open-minded, your friend might find herself in a similar situation as you may start hanging out with a boyf soon.


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Thank you so much! And I will try to be more open-minded....




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