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Im 16/f and my friend is 15/m...we live quite a few citys apart...we've been freinds since 1999...

A few years ago i realized that i was in love with my friend.But beacaus i did'nt want to ruin the freindship i tried to ignor these fealings. This year i decided that i could'nt bear it any more and i was ready to tell him the way i feel.Then the night i had planed to tell him, he started asking me about my friend lets call her 17/f. I then knew that i had to tell him right then and there or i could really miss out, so i did. His reaction was a lil stuned, but he said something on the lines of him knowing.

The thing is i talked to him and he said that he had once liked me but the feeling had just left, or something like that. But the fact that not one of us spoke about us liking each other until i spoke that day...

He seams to realy like my freind 17/f... and i want hi to be happy... its just i love him! and ive told him more ever sonce i had that one time yet all he says is im sorry...

My question is were do i go from here? I love this guy so much...yet the feeling dos'nt seem to return...I cant possibly give up...

any advice will be greatfully apreciated even oppinions!
Thankz a bunch!

Firstly, hi, how are you? I think that you can't put a magical spell on him to make him love you, like you love him. If he still has some feeling for you, then let it come natural and if it doesn't then it's his loss, not yours. if you really LOVE him, then you have to want him to be happy. I know that's its hard, but trust me, this happens to everyone at least once in their life. They love someone, but the other person just wants to remain friends, and don't love them that way. Don't lose faith, but don't pressure him, because you could lose your true friend. I really hope that everything goes well. And if you ever need more advice, please,please, don't hesitate,because it's not the ratings and stars I care about, it's helping others' with their problems.
YOURS TRULY
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