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Hi everyoneI'm open to any questions or comments. I'm a high school student and may be able to relate to most of you and i encourage everyone to speak their minds and i'll do my best to answer the questions.
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I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..
hi
i know its hard for you, believe me. just last friday, i found out that 2 of my friends cut themselves. doing things to yourself isn't the answer. one of my friends had the same problem as you. i know we all get envious of those we "think" are better than us. but we have to open our eyes and realize that we are all beautiful. all those other people don't matter. and besides what makes them so perfect anywayz? just because they may look like they have everything, they don't. some feel insecure like you. plus, you don't have to have a flat stomach and muscular thighs to be pretty. focus on your good features. no one is ugly. one fav saying that i think is inspiring is "no one can make you feel inferior without you consent" i know that at this age, all we think about is having boyfriends and being popular. but all that isn't important. what is? well being yourself and having fun with your true friends. and how do you know that u'll never have a boyfriend? u never know. i think you should talk to someone, you shouldn't be dealing with this by yourself. if you need more advice, please don't hesitate to ask me.
~***Victoria***~
(Rating: 5) thanks!