Hey gies . I probably deal with a lot of the same problems as you do. So go ahead...ask me anything. This is so that you know that someone's here for you no matter who you are or what your problem is.
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Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.) (link)
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I know that's got to be hard. But you have to remember...maybe from her point of view you were being more mean than your other friend. And you also have to know...she's acting off of emotions right now. It's still hard for her too i'm sure. Give her time. If time doesnt heal it...then find other groups of friends to hang out with. Because if she cant learn to forgive, she's not a really good friend in the first place. I know it will be hard. But look at it as an oppurtunity to meet new people and become a part of other groups. Remember that when one door closes, another opens. It just might take a little longer than you want.
Good luck && hope it helped.
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