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cindy

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This friend I used to be really close with all of a sudden treats me like I'm a stranger. When I talk to them, they respond briefly then turn away. It's worse than being a stranger, cuz my friend's can be pretty friendly with strangers, not cold and distant like lately. I try talking to them about this recent change but they get all defensive, so what am I supposed to do? I don't want to lose a friend =\

I know exactly what your going through. I used to be best friends with this one girl and then we got in a fight. Now, I just try to be civil with her, you know, have a somewhat normal question and she treats me like I'm not worth her words. I know it hurts, but you just got work through it. I'm not exactly sure why your friend is doing this, try talking to her and only her. When your talking one on one, it's a lot easier to get through. Also, don't stoop down to there level. Keep being friendly. Also, start talking to other people as well. Maybe you just need a break from your old friends. You never know. Don't ditch them, but just give them a little space. I'll assure you, it will all blow over, don't worry. If you have anymore questions, you know where to find me. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy

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(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot! I'll try that!
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