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Q: OMG!!! TODAY me and my friend's friend fought b/c she talk about me behind my back and the person she talked to is mad at me b/c she been telling him that i hate him and he is stupid! i mean i never said any thing like that why she do this to me i never did any thing like this to her why she is doing this to me i hate person talk behind my back!! and she is not even my true friend.she is my friend's friend. i talked to my friend about this and her advice is useless so i dont kown what should i do to this back staping person by the way i cant just give up that ez i need to get revenge or something i cant just sit around and pertend nothing happened. ILL RATE EVER ONE WHO GIVE ME USEFUL ADVICE A BIG 5 I REALLY NEED SOME ONE TO GIVE ME ADVICE NOW SO PLZ!!!!!
Well, as I'm sure you already know, the "appropriate" thing to do is ignore her & let it be. But, I know exactly how you feel , so, that's not going to be good enough for us, is it? First thing, (just so you know) the usual reason people do this is out of jealousy. There is something about you she is envious of & this is her way of knocking you down a peg. My advice is to start a rumor about her. First off, I can't really tell you what to say, because I know nothing about her. But, anything nasty will do. Second off, you do have to wait at least a week or 2, because if you do it now, people will know you are doing it just to get back at her. I know it will be tough. The best thing you can do right now is talk to the boy she told lies to and try to appeal to him that you never said those things. Also, at least attempt to be as happy as a pig in shit! Do not under any circumstances let her see that this bothers you in any way, shape or form. After a little while, when it all blows over, you can start your "rumor mill" & see how she likes it! I hope this isn't too lame & it all works out for ya. Good Luck.

thx alot this is more like what i think too, ill do it ! by the way the boy that she told rumor to i called him and trying to explain but he belive that little bitch says and he think is my falt and he totaly hates me he think that im using him is not i care how he think about me is just the feeling behind me make me feel sick i hate ppl talk shit about me especailly the person that i use to treat her to be my "friend" tell me more advice plz it seems we have alot incommon!!! we could talk!!

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I am married and have 3 beautiful daughters. Their ages are 2, 6 & 11. I am not in any way saying I am an expert on life, but, I have been through a lot of different things, from...mental health issues, alcoholism to having a husband in Iraq. So, feel free to ask me anything you need help with & I will try to answer it the best I can.

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