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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!!
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When I saw this question I could instantly relate. Sometimes meeting someone from the internet can be good, and sometimes it can be bad. I've had so far, two relationships over the internet that were later moved to over the phone. In one of them we never met in person, and the other I had twice, but only for short visits. It was more of a long-distance relationship after that than an internet relationship.
I do think it is possible, because while in the first relationship I don't think I loved her, but had a fondness for her, my second relationship I couldn't get enough of him. I thought about him day and night, and it actually started to hurt to get off the phone with him. Perhaps I was too clingy, I don't know, but we dated for a year and a half. I talked with some of his friends and saw pictures of him, and I actually became friends with one of his ex's, so I knew he pretty much wasn't a fake. Especially when I saw him in person.
My cousin met her boyfriend over the internet, and the guy moved from where he did live to where we both live, and he turned out to be pretty cool. They've broken up, but they're still really good friends, and they're still together constantly.
However, I have had a bad experience from the internet. There are alot of perverted guys out there, and I happened to meet one in person. Lets just say it didn't go too well.
I say just make sure you can trust him before to make any big decisions like meeting him in person, if you really do love him and trust him, then I say go for it.
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your adviceee made me feel so much better. thank you for answering. & omg when you said you were hurt to get off the phone with him ..... i feel the sameeee way wen i get off the phone with my guy ... i make him stay up late on the phone with me even when hes sleepy just because i love him so much.
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I'm only 13 and I've already gone through alot, dealing with sex, anorexia, bulimia, boyfriends, girlfriend, homosexuality, bisexuality, I'm just not very good at taking my own advice, but other seems to like it good enough. However, I do tend to ramble on in my answers. I'm thirteen, and my name is Sofia. But you can call me Sophie.
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Gender: Female Age: 13 AIM: Member Since: April 5, 2006 Answers: 5 Last Update: May 22, 2006 Visitors: 1882
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