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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!! (link)
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This is a question that has to be answered based on how old you are. If you are under 18, especially if you are under 16...be very very careful. If you are under 18 I really don't think there is any reason at all for you to be trying to meet men/boys/whatever online. If you don't believe me then ask your parents opinion as a hypothetical and see what they say. I'm sure I don't have to tell you about internet preditors who pose as teen boys to meet underage girls just like you. They really go all out too, just because his profile LOOKS like a teen who goes to such and such school doesn't really mean anything. Even if you are over 18, always meet in a very public place and tell lots of people where you are going and with whom before to go to meet him. That doesn't just go for meeting #1 either. Lots of people meet over the internet and become good friends or more. there isn't anything worng with that. Safety needs to be your top priority though.
I did say that there isn't anything wrong with liking a guy you met on the internet. I added the safety info because clearly you are a child and could use a lot of help on the subject. I can see that you proved me correct.
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i didnt ask you how to be safe. I asked if it was weird that i love him. I know his real, hes friend goes to my school, but you never even answered my question
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