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I just got out of a two year relationship and I have been really devastated about it. Well lately I've been hanging around my friend whose friends with a lot of guys. So I flirted with a lot of guys and I felt like one of the guys was the next guy I'd like to date. I really feel like I'm moving too fast. I keep flirting with all of these guys convincing myself that I love them at then I go home at night crying over my ex-boyfriend. I know for sure that I am not over him and that's what scares me.

I was wondering if I should be trying to hook up and date other guys in your opinions. I mean, I think in a way I do have feelings for this friend of mine, but I think another part of me is trying to escape the misery of the past boyfriend. Can anyone tell me if what I'm doing is taking things too far or give me some advice?

I'm a 15 year old female.

thank you

It's going to be hard to get over a two year relationship. For one, there was the comfort of always having someong there. But don't worry, what your feeling is totally natural. Getting out of a relationship and moving on is tough and is going to take time. But trust me on this one, you will eventually be able to move on. First though, you have to really want to move on. If you want it so badly, you will be able to. As for hooking up with these guys, go for it if you think it will help you get over your ex. However, if you are having a lot of second thoughts about it, maybe your just not ready. It's up to you. If you need anymore advice you know where to find me. I hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy

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