Hi everyone, I'd like to hear your perspective(this question is especially for girls but guys are welcome to answer too). My problem is that I feel disgustingly and frighteningly ugly. My own reflection upsets me when I look in the mirror, and I find the idea of sex really scary. I've tried it a couple of times, but the guys I've been with have been really greedy and impatient and made me feel even uglier. They kept on going on about how pretty other girls were, and I think they just wanted me because I'm so insecure. Has anyone else been through this , and come out all right the other end(e.g. in a happy relationship, or just happier with themselves). Some days I don't even want to leave the house, I feel I look so bad.
Thanks in advance(22/f BTW).
It's not just looks that matter...it's what on the inside that really counts. Also, for one thing, you shouldn't have SEX just to have it. You should wait until you get married. I know that in your added information that it said that you don't want any "teen advice" but sometimes having teen advice is good. You should wait until you get married because that's the best gift your body can give a man. When you get married, what are you going to tell your spouse when he asks you if you'r a virgin!? Just wait until you find the man you love and that you think you're ready for having sex. Trust me on this one. If you need anymore advice you can e-mail me-- summer_lovr304@yahoo.com
-Hope I helped
Anna
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Thank you for your advice.
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