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HeY im Kelsey&& im 15, i love to give advice so dont b shy, im here to give you answers. Im not here to judge you, it doesnt matter what gender,race,or orientaion, etc. Im here to answer your questions and to help however i can. I don't mind doin a little research or whatever, im here for you.
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im currently 13 and my boyfriend and i have been going out since i was 12. today in one of my classes, my friend asked my if this other person told me something. i said no and she was like, good because ***** didnt want us to tell you. i put enough pressure on her to finally get some words out. she said that he desperately wanted to make out. i mean, we've kissed before but not like SERIOUSLY seriously gone there. he has made out with some girls in the past but i havent made out with anyone yet. in my school, making out is a big issue for everyone. they say if you dont make out in 7th grade, you'll never survive in the school we're going to next year.
its not like i dont like him enough to do it, but i dont feel ready. i know im just thirteen but im a lot more mature mentally and physically than my peers. i have had the oppertunities to make out but none of them felt right so i didnt.
im going out with him to the movies on friday night. what if he makes a move then? what do i say? i dont want things to be awkward. i dont want people to think im a loser. and i definitely dont want him to think that i dont want to take things a step further. i do, but i dont... if that makes sense.
has anyone been in my position? please help me out.
Well im 14 right now and i have definitely been in thi situation, yeah it was earlier than 13 but i am goin to be completely truthful because to give the best advice i can, im not going to lie to you. Well first of all don't feel like it is wrong to make out with him, its not like you are marrying him. The only way it would be wrong is if you did it and you werent ready, then you would probably feel bad (then again it may help you realize you are ready) but you are teh judge of that.You do what you are ready for when you are ready for it. If he makes a move then just don't return it, tell him you really like him and if he REALLY DOES like you then he will understand that you dont want to do it right then. Don't stress it. When it comes to your friends hassling you about it or saying mean stuff because you decided not to make out with this guy, it is not their business. Stand up for yourself and don't be scared, try not to be mean or anything but be firm. Tell them that you ARE NOT them and you can do WHATEVER you want and do it WHENEVER you want to, its not their decision.
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(Rating: 5) AMAZING advice! i didnt expect a response like yours and when i read it i was like wow, never thought of it like that. you helped a lot, thanks!