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Okay well as a young child i was raped multiple times by the same person. and out of the blue i get flashbacks and they keep on coming back to me. Like even when im watching TV lying down on my bed i picture him coming into my room and i freak out. Its been like a decade ago and it still scares me...if this is happening now, whats gonna happen when i want to do stuff with a guy? how do i get rid of it? i dont want to go to a therpist or anything cuz they just freak me out even more!

Okay honey listen my real name is Shaniqua and I was raped by someone I did'nt even know but my best friend set me up and Im Telling you for almost a year I have been to school because I was always depressed and everyday I would wake up and see it happening again I was scared and felt alone but sooner then I thought I was gonna go crazy that's why i decide to get help and trust me Im starting to feel better and it is a big relief you think about it but not that much and I think you should go to counseling for people who have been raped and it helps I would'nt even lie to you and even though I don't know you I dont want you to end up like me no friends and being afraid and then you start hating being around alot of people and trust that's the worst feeling of my life and trust me if you wanna talk personally you can write me at Salena_galena@yahoo.com
and even though the counselors freak you out your not going there for there health your going for yours and they dont pressure you to talk and they tell you that but they want you to get used to them and then you can open up and they will be there as long as you want them to but please go take it from someone who understands you and know what your going through and im here to talk to you about anything Ive been through alot for a 17 year old and trust me you would think im in my 30's.When you try to do stuff with a guy your be scared your not gonna want him to touch you kiss you or hold you or do anything and it's gonna bring back flash backs and it's not supposed to go that way ever since I started going to counseling I 've been able to talk to my boyfriend and im no longer afraid to be touched or anything and I dont have flasj backs to much either my life is starting to get better everyday because im going to counseling gettin my life back together and trust me I dont think you want yours to get even worse so please go it would really help plz i know how you feel so go so you can move on and be happy with out falsh backs okay
Yours truley
Bella

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(Rating: 5) thank you. it really helped. im thinking on councling...maybe..
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