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My boyfriend and me are on sports.. He’s on baseball and I'm on softball and on Friday after my game we are going to take a shower together in the girls locker room not having sex just taking a shower together… and I was wondering what I should do because I’m scared he’ll be the first boy who ever saw my body… EVER!!


my questions are..

-what if his mom is looking for him(his mom works in the school)
-what should i do with him in there
-what if my coach comes in


I’m 15 and we’ve been going out for a while now.. About 6 months and I just need to know what to do.. Thank!!

Well first of all you need to make sure that nobody comes in there at that time, stay one day for awhile and see if anyone comes in, I guess there would be some people that clean the girls locker room. And if his mom is looking for him I am sure she wont find you guys in the locker room. Just incase when you are going to leave you step out first and make sure the cost is clear. But honestly really think about it, make sure you really like this guy and that you will be comfortable with being naked around eachother.Also remember this is a guy and you never know. You dont want to put yourself in dangerous situation if he wants to do more than just take a shower. I am almost sure he will try to do more but now that I am done preaching on here is some advice.

* It is normal to be nervouse but try not to act nervous, try your hardest to relax

* Before you get ready to go to your game make sure you shaved well (lol)you do not want a hair patch on the side of you leg. Look at yourself naked in the miror and repeat these words "Damn Im sexy" (lol) it helps boost your confidence.

* And basicall just be cute/ sexy. Flirt a bit (as much as you feel comfortable with)Tilt your head back and let the water run over you hair look at him smile ect... If there's soap or w/e help him wash off, and kiss. It all depends what you are comfortable with.

* If he wants to do more dont be afraid to say no. You should never let him try to convince you to do something you dont want to do. And any way heres a good line just in case "I dont want to go that far in a situation like this/ I want it to be safe and intimate when we do that."

Just have fun but be careful, if youd o get caught they might let both of your parents know, and word gets around fast and you might get labeled as a slut.

Hope I helped and if you need more advice feel free to ask. =)

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(Rating: 5) =) Thank you!!! :-D omg finally.. another girl i asked was like um..i dont do those questions.. lol You are the best.. I was actually going to be doing that thing infront of the mirror..

Thanks
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