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My name is Kambrey and I am a very oppinionated and strong willed person, however I am also very open-minded to new ways of thinking and others opinions. Being a minority where I live has helped open my eyes to the struggles of others. And since the minority I belong to is a religious one I am also very repectful of others beliefs, life styles and points of view. I know it's hard to be different sometimes, and even harder asking for help when your worried others are judging you. I'm NOT going to judge you. Period. My only purpose is to help. Feel free to hit me with ANY question you need help with! And to anyone reading my column with comments, oppinions or really any constructive critisism PLEASE let me know! Can't wait to hear from you! ~KambreyP.S.- Feel free to hit me up at my private e-mail for questions you don't want displayed on the site! AskKambrey@yahoo.com
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I'm 14/f...I like my best friend and unfortunatley its a girl (no offense to anyone). I want to tell her just so I can talk to her about it but she seems like she could care less. So what do I do? Do I just blab it out or not tell her at all? Thnx in advance.
-Duckie
Dear Duckie,
First off I just want to tell you that you should never have to apologize for your beliefs or how you feel. If you are gay don't be ashamed of it and don't let others influence it.
Now on to your problem at hand. You didn't say to much about your friend so I'm just going to give you my advice for both senerio's(the first being you don't know if she's gay or not and the second being you know she is).
If you like her and want to know if she is interested or not first you just kind of need to ease into the subject. Bring up a movie you saw(Brokeback Mt. is a good example), see how she reacts to the movie. Usually movies like that spark discussion. K, now i'm gonna skip ahead a bit. So now you know that she is fine with people being gay, next you have to find out her personal stance, ya know if she ever looks at other girls as attractive or not. If you get that feeling in your gut that gives you the go ahead ask her if she would like to go on a date sometime(but I would wait a day or so for this, let it sink in and her think about the idea first).
Second senerio- you already know that she is. Skip the first couple steps and ask her on a date. But just a tip, avoid flat out saying that you have a crush on her before you've gone out a few times.
Best wishes and good luck!
~Kambrey
(Rating: 5) Thnx!!