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so theres these two boys... i like them both.. but im confused abt both of them. lets call one of the boys Bob.. Bob goes to school with me, hes a 9th grader, im a tenth. He tells my friends he likes me and hes told me and we dont talk that much. and we absolutely never talk in school, i guess hes kinda shy. Boy 2.. lets call him Fred. I met fred when i went to taco bell. he works there. ive seen him like once and then he found me on myspace and we've been talkin ever since. hes talked to my bestfriend and wants to go out with me.. and i do like him too. and he lives closer to me. ok well anyways. i like both of them and i dont know what to do or how to sort this out cause im soo confused!! plz help!! ill rate 5s for anything (link)
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Personally I think you should go for Fred. Not only do you talk to him more but he's closer which means you'll probably be able to see him more often which is very important in a relationship. Plus he isn't at school which means you'll both have lots of things to talk about which you won't know, unlike Bob who may already know some stuff that has happened at school.
However if you are still undecided, here's a little test to help you decide. Pluck up the courage and ask them both out on a date. One on one night and the other the next night. Go to exactly the same place and try to do everything the same as you did before. Then you will be able to see who you click better with and who you enjoy being round more. Cruel I know, but a truly effective way of seeing who is better for you.
Good luck
Sapphire Lily xxx
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