Hey :-) I'm Claire. This may be a new column, but I've been an advicenator for a while now (I got a new column for the new year) and am experienced at answering your questions! I love helping people and will try my very best to solve your problems. Feel free to ask me anything and make sure to let me know how everything turns out for you xxx :-P
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how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks. (link)
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Crazy, isn't it? What's worse is seeing your best friend all over him and then daydreaming about him. Anyway :-), I would recommend you throw yourself into something else, something new and exciting that you havent done before like a martial art. It would be a symbol of moving on, just like dying your hair or getting a tattoo would have the same effect. Celebrate what is so wonderful about you and spend lots of time with your friends. Listen to some great music that you can dance to and that makes you happy your on your own eg. Kelly Clarkson - Since u been gone (cheesy i know but it really works!).
However the real solution would be to tell him. There may be some reason why you can't and thats okay but if you are just presuming it wouldn't work out, then that is just as crazy as this situation. Imagine how great it would be if you could be with him?!!! Don't die wondering what could have been, tell him how you feel!!! Ignore the above if there is a specific reason it wouldn't work though.
Good luck, get him out of your head and move on. It's difficult but you will just end up depressed and lonely otherwise and thats the worst thing in the world.
Sapphire Lily xxx
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