I am a married stay at home mom. I have been helping friends and other people online for a long time, about 5 years now. I am always willing to lend an ear. Hopefully, I will be able to help you through your tough times.
Gender: Female
Location: CALI
Occupation: STAY AT HOME MOM
AIM: LADYMAY1980
Yahoo: MRSSRPA
Member Since: April 26, 2006
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Hello, I just turned 24 years old 2 weeks ago. You think I would be happy but I am not. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have never recieved and gifts from a man or even been out on a date. I have never even kissed a man. i remember when i was 16 my friends would laugh and me because i had not done ane anything yet. I thought i was a loser back then but now that I am 24 I don't think i am in the loser catergory any more. could it be that no one pays attention to me because I am over weight? (size 16) If that is true then why do I see girls who are way bigger than me with a boyfriends. Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just a loser? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you and you are most certainly not a loser. Size really does not matter. It is all about personality. You need to find your good qualities and that will give confidence. And when you find confidence in yourself other people will notice you.
I had a major weight problem in high school. I lost some weight but i never really noticed. I still thought i was fat. So I gave up. I realized I am a good person. I have a lot to offer. I try to help ppl when I can. I may not look like the models in the magazines but I realized I didn't need to.
Trust me it will get better. Have some faith in yourself. It will take you far.
Best wishes and good luck
Sassie
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Thank you so much you made me feel a lot better. What your say is right. Thanks again.
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