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My friends have always said I've been good at giving advice, so I'm trying this so i can help more people. Dont get mad if I'm bad at this pleease. =P

little info:

age: 16
sex: male
grade: junior
sign: aquarius

advice

Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.

Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)

Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)

Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!

But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.

I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.

I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.

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Ok, well.. unless you want to have to just deal with it, you probably have to talk to one of them.

Your best bet to get to the point would be to talk to him.. let him know you like him, either by straight out telling him, or flirting more with him. Just be careful, if your friend comes off a little stronger, which from what you said, it seems like she does.

Or, you could talk to her.. let her know that its bothering you how much it seems like she steals away the guys you like, and that you really care about this guy, to maybe just let you try and have something with him first. She should understand.

Any more questions, feel free to leave it in my inbox. ~Andrew

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