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14/f I have been with my boyfriend since January. Whenever we go out, I can never eat in front of him. For instance, when we go to six flags together, I usually don't get anything to eat, just something to drink. Same with movies, mall, what have you.
Well. In about a month, we have a Semi-Formal dance coming up at school. This dance includes a catered dinner before they open the dance floor.
I'm afraid to eat in front of my boyfriend. I'm perfectly fine in front of most friends and whatnot, but I'm not the skinniest girl in the world so I think thats probably why I'm shy about eating.
Its not that I think my boyfriend won't accept me or something, because I know he's not at all like that -- but I still won't eat when I'm with him.
What can I do to resolve this problem?
Well, you just have to get over your fear. I don't really understand why you won't eat in front of him, but you should. That way he will know that you are healthy and do not have an eating disorder. Most guys prefer when girls get a Big Mac over a salad. Eating is kind of a turn on for them. So don't worry about what he thinks, and enjoy yourself! Good luck.
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot, very useful advice.