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Okay so i have been with my boyfriend for sometime now and its like lately i have been feeling hurt...its the things he says like ill ask something and hell call me dumb because sometimes i dont think before i ask things i guess...but we have been going through somethings for the past week..and i really dont know how to get out my feelings out to him in person its easy to text or write it down for me...but he wants and likes to talk face to face even if were laying down in the dark i still dont know how to get out my feelings to him..i really do love and care about him...hes my world my everything and i know i mean the same to him were very close eachothers best freinds we do everything together always with eachother..i just have this in the way of us getting even more closer...so please i need help on how i can be able to step up and talk to him face to face..il rate 5s!!PLEASE HELP ASAP!! (link)
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the best thing to do when you're afraid of something is to face it, right?
Well, you could write roughtly what you're going to say and then practise it. Do it in front of the mirror than sitting down and pretending your boyfriend's there.
if it will make you feel better, make a date, tell your bf to come over and prepare for it. Maybe you guys can have dinner tog. or something alter, but just tell him to come over cos it's imprtant then tell him.
If you jjust couldn't do it. It's ok. you've got to do it the way you are comfrotable. Maybe write a letter telling him that you couldn't tell him to his face and what the problem is.
And just for you, I understand when you say that he's your world,but your world starts with you, and if you let him treat you like this, you'll lose yourself and that's when problems start. I'm not saying to break it off. i'm suggesting that you find things to do that make you happy. And volunteering with others will make you feel good about yourself, if you're into that kind of thing.
Good luck
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