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Occupation: childcare teacher.
Age: 20
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Member Since: April 21, 2006
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Last Update: May 4, 2006
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ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do? (link)
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sweetie. i know how it feels cos it happens in MY family too.
or should i say, "happened".
sometimes, you have to fight back. tell your dad, "HEY! you can't hit me like that!"
but never tell your dad when he is hitting you. tell him only AFTER he cools down. tell him nicely... say things like, "dad.. you're really great when you don't hit me."
then tell your mom that you need a peaceful family. let them understand taht what you need a calm and loving family. talk to your dad. and your mom. sit together and talk.
never raise your voice. parents love to "discuss". not "follow". so voice out your opinions using "how nice it would be if...", "don't you think we should.."
it should NEVER be, "you are so f*ed up! i can't be bothered with you!"
all these will never stop your fights. trust me.
when he tries to hit you again, tell him that what he's doing to you is out of disrespect and you really hate it.
physical wounds heal. but wounds in the mind don't. concentrate on solving the problem. your wounds and bruises will heal in time.
if you need to talk to me about anything, drop me a message.
:)
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thats great suggestions fer sumone hu had a loving family. but not fer me. u realli dont kno. but its nice that u try to help, but i realli think that our situations r very different. btw how do i tell my dad hes realli great wen i realli hate him. mab ur parents like discussing but mine dont. they yell and argue.and i did fite bak, smacked him in the face mad times. btwn us two there realli is a huge difference. he was never a dad to me. all he did was talk bout how bad i was,but he was never there fer me. to me hes not a father figure. i call him my dad in here so ppl wud understand my situation a lil better. biologicalli hes my father, other than that nothing, at least not after trying to kik me out of the house twice. and it wasnt even those feelin-bad-afterwards kiking out. he was literalli gonna drag me by my arms and pull me out of his house. that nigga went fuken psycho. im sure your parents wudnt realli mean to kik you out if they told you they were abandonin you. but thx again fer the help
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