Hey :-) I'm Claire. This may be a new column, but I've been an advicenator for a while now (I got a new column for the new year) and am experienced at answering your questions! I love helping people and will try my very best to solve your problems. Feel free to ask me anything and make sure to let me know how everything turns out for you xxx :-P
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i like this boy in my gym class we USTE to be very good buds..We ALMOST dated before .. then he uste to be a real jerk.. so i quit talking to him for about month. i decided to start talking to him and i like him again.. Should I? (link)
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Its difficult to say really. In my opinion, any guy that treats you bad at any time is not worth your time ever again but there may be a reason behind why he was acting like a jerk. Was he having a hard time at home maybe or stressed out about exams? If it was because something like this, then he is redeemable. But don't leave it, speak to him about it and let him know that he was bang out of order and that it hurt that he treated you that way, even if he was under pressure elsewhere he shouldn't have taken it out on you. If he is decent enough and cares about you like a friend should, he will apologise. If he does, then sure like him as long as you stamp bad treatment out the second it starts if he ever does it again.
If he was simply being a jerk because he felt like it, then he is not worth it. You deserve someone who respects you and treats you the way you treat them all the time, not just when they want to. Ditch him and find someone that truly deserves to have you! Because in the end, he would just hurt you no matter how nice he is being at the moment.
Good luck, hope it turns out it was the first option
Sapphire Lily xxx
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