My name is Marissa, and I am a sex advisor/educator. It is my life mission to help people to understand sex, pleasure, and relationships...as well as to help those who have been victims of sexual assault find their way back to sexual pleasure and positivity.
I have worked in this field for quite some time, and am a researcher as well. Please let me know if you have any questions, and I would be happy to dig in and help you find your pleasure! :)
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karenR
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I think I masturabte tooo much...
Like I just discovered it 2 days ago
and I already did it about 4 times...
Is that normal? And plus after I do it
I feel like a total pervert for doing it
and it's weird, but hwen I'm doing it it feels sooo good. Im confusedddd (link)
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As was stated, if it's not hampering your ability to do your daily activities, then no, it's not too much.
Also, the part where you feel like a "pervert" is very normal. Girls are treated much differently than boys are regarding masturbation. For girls, when we're very young and start to experiment, we often get hand-slaps, and told that it's "dirty". When boys do it, they're taught to go in another room and do it in private. How far is THAT? :P
Seriously, I'm guessing that the feeling comes from either what you think society will think of you, or the lessons learned in your family structure. Either way, please know that masturbation is not only normal, but healthy.
Take care,
Marissa
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