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I am 14 and all my friends are the same age. (we are not punk rock or emo people, just so you know). A lot of my friends tell me sad things or problems in their lives. (boyfriend problems, cutter problems, ect.). Whenever I hear about this stuff I usually don't care much, it's sadly just not in my character. But when I get home I'll do all the normal stuff I normally do, but I'll end up crying for no reason. I'll feel horrible inside but I won't know why.
So what my question is: How can I make my enviorment less negative other than getting new friends? I can't tell them that they can't tell me their problems. If I did then they would be keeping their problems inside them, and that would be giving my depression problem to them.
My best friend Angela went through the same things see I did not notice that what I was telling her was to much for her to handle its kind of a smaller version of depression you need to talk to your friends about how you are feeling to. Don’t bottle things up k get back to me? P.s you are the same age as me you don’t need to be worrying about all that stuff be a kid
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I never really realized it, but your right, I do keep my feelings inside. so im dealing with my problems and my friends'. Thanks so much, I'll give it a shot. :D