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Q: IM 15/f and i really like this kid who has a gf and turns 18 today. i've practicaly changed part of my life to win him over. I think i;m going to give up b/c he has a gf. i talked to him a while ago. i was stupid last month and told him i loved him. he said he kinda liked me but he has a gf. she is 17. I started to dress different and listen to different music and like different things. do you think i should give up on him and just stop thinking/talking to him/seeing him. or should i act like everything is fine? he is going to help me this summer to helo me join the basketball team next year. im rly excited. i dont know what to do though b/c everytime i see him or talk to him i fall in love with him again. he flirts with me and everything and i love it. but, i dont know if i can do it anymore. so do you think i should forget all about him and move on or should i just continue getting my heart broken when i see him and just wait for something to finally happen? i rate good answers.
thanks!!
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Girl you need to move on. This guy isn't worth it because he got a girlfriend and if he flirts with you it doesn't always mean he likes you or wants to have a relationship with you. Dont change yourself just for a guy because no matter if you change to be the girl that he likes he isn't going to like you. Just be yourself and don't try to compare yourself to other girls and dont try to be like them. Be orignal. There are plenty of better guys out there and I know that age doesn't matter, but if he's 17 he's going to want to be with girls his age. Dont wait for him just keep going and meet new guys. All girls love to have guys flirting with them so your single and you should mingle. You dont have to stop talking about him, but you should just become more friends with him. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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accually. you are right. i have a bf as of today.. hes 17 turning 18 this year. so im over him thanks
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Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site.
Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Quincy, Massachusetts Occupation: Student Age: 21 Member Since: July 10, 2005 Answers: 174 Last Update: April 19, 2007 Visitors: 10241
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