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E-mail: tha_art_of_losing@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: australia victory
Age: 13
Member Since: April 13, 2006
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Me and my boyfriend are going through really hard times right now. He keeps telling me how he's too busy to talk or too tired to even figure things out. And I feel like I've just been the one to deal with his bad moods lately. Last night I was explaining to him how hurt I was about the fact that I was crying and all he could talk about was how tired he was about it. He just said that he just can't deal with all of this, so I told him that he doesn't have to deal with me anymore and we hung up. I'm always the one to come back to him after a fight. So, this time I'm letting him make the move. He's called twice tonight and I didn't answer because I just think he needs more room.

So my questions are: If he really cares about me, will he still keep calling to prove that he does want this to work?

How will I know that he really does want this to work?

Should I give him time? because I really don't want to be hurt anymore by the fact that he doesn't want to talk lately.

I need some advice, I will rate to let you know what I think (link)
hey your boyfriend doesnt seem like a very caring guy...i agree with tammy...pulling away was a good thing to do...to see if he really cares about you....answer his calls.... if he says he's sorry and he wants to sort things out then thats defintly a good sign but if he still isnt in a good mood.. give him some time... or if your really that sick of it... dump him

anyways hope i was a help

geetarist


Rating: 4
Your answer was pretty short and up to the point which I do like. Thank you.




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